First, thank you for writing all that. I appreciate it.

When I create the torrent as you've stated, It shows up as green (not red) and then when I upload it (then download it has the site tells me too) it says "would you like to load the trackers for it" i click yes, and then it's still is green. as if nothing has changed.

I've even clicked "no" just to see if that would change anything and still nothing.

Then you probably have the wrong trackers in there from the start. Make sure you have nothing else but the mma-torrent one, and none other!

Because you are obviously not seeding.